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girls tell me I’m pretty a lot but I never get approached by guys WHY
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Anonymous 2w

boys get nervous too… you should try approaching a boy you like he might be thinking the same thing and is too afraid to approach you.

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Anonymous 2w

because women are scary

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Anonymous 2w

Bc girls are nicer than boys. SOMETIMES. At least with this kind of thing girls are more prone to compliment other girls than guys are

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Anonymous 2w

Guys generally approach girls less often than they used to, most are nervous to

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Anonymous 2w

So I can answer that.. Fear of rejection is what causes most people not to take chances. The ones who have no fear of rejection are normally the ones no one wants to be with anyways 🤣

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Anonymous 2w

it’s harder to approach girls than it used to be. you never wanna be a guy who tells a girl she’s pretty, or tries to ask them out, and it makes them feel uncomfortable. that’s hell for everyone. is easier just to keep your distance

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Anonymous 2w

Same

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Anonymous 2w

Those girls are probably lying

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Aw, absolutely! My best friend approached her partner, and they’re such a sweet happy couple. But it’s also completely valid if approaching just isn’t OP’s thing - or if that dynamic doesn’t feel attractive to her. 👍 And we don’t even know that OP isn’t approaching - she might be, and is just wondering why it’s never reciprocated. Which is super fair!

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

Also - where are you out and about typically, OP? I think sometimes when folks don’t get approached they assume it’s about them, when sometimes it’s not them at all - when really, location can be so important with this kind of thing! For example, I don’t feel pretty at all - but I do notice that I get asked out more at say a gym rather than a restaurant. I hope I’m not talking gibberish. XD

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

Thank youuu I’m a college student so I’m on campus haha but ig I don’t hang around common areas a lot🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

It’s so sad

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

HAHA

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

Well that’s rude

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 1w

Didn’t mean it that way most just lie like that for no reason

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