Aw, absolutely! My best friend approached her partner, and they’re such a sweet happy couple. But it’s also completely valid if approaching just isn’t OP’s thing - or if that dynamic doesn’t feel attractive to her. 👍 And we don’t even know that OP isn’t approaching - she might be, and is just wondering why it’s never reciprocated. Which is super fair!
Also - where are you out and about typically, OP? I think sometimes when folks don’t get approached they assume it’s about them, when sometimes it’s not them at all - when really, location can be so important with this kind of thing! For example, I don’t feel pretty at all - but I do notice that I get asked out more at say a gym rather than a restaurant. I hope I’m not talking gibberish. XD