
HA is not a captive/ captor situation so it doesn’t really fit tbh. Is it romanticized abuse? Yeah, but people have kinks and I don’t really care what others are reading. I think it’s weird as hell that they chose HA of all things to make a movie out of, but anything that gets people reading, which it did and does, is ultimately a net gain in the end as people move onto better fiction.
No they’re right. Stockholm syndrome as its own thing is disputed, and we don’t have a bunch of good evidence for its existence as an actual syndrome. I’m no scholar tbc, I just read around, but think about it. It’s just ‘oh they started to empathize with their captor’ but people as a general rule start to empathize with people who take care of them. We’re kinda built for community and survival