When Brown women advocate for their right to live independently, wear what they want, and lead their love lives how they want, people accuse them of sleeping with yt men, even though we would still advocate for those rights even if yt men didn’t exist. Who we are intimate with or lead our love lives with should be no one’s business but people view Brown women as sexual property instead of human beings. It’s awful.
Thank you. I want to go back to writing it, but I’m too upset at how people were accusing me of “perpetuating harmful stereotypes” even though this book takes place in Pakistan. Women in Pakistan and other south Asian countries suffer so much violence and none of us have revenge fantasy books like yt women do to relieve themselves of the constant violent sexism.