And tbf pdf and incest are not even close to most of dark romance. I know 0 dark romance readers who are into either. And I follow a good number of dark romance influencers. Those are often just thrown in to bring down the entire genre. When a lot of it (the stuff I enjoy) is dark in theme but the romance is still sound and consensual. Non and dub con are popular, but they also pretty damn clearly state what you’re going into. And people are 100% free not to read that content.
That’s the thing is rape does mean dark romance unless the mmc is raping the FMC. I think it is good to educate people about those experiences through literature but the issue is they just write a rape scene then in the next chapter we completely ignore the fact that a character got raped or sexually assaulted
This, and also TWs are getting more popular LARGELY due to dark romance authors, dark fanfic writers, and queer creators. Like you wouldn’t be able to pick through content warnings and decide if a book is right for you based on tiggers if it wasn’t for dark romance authors pushing them to the front and trying their damndest to help people read only what they feel comfortable. So while there are some issues w the genre, it has done a ton of good in terms of normalizing TWs!