His Unexpected (+ series) by Bailey Elizabeth is a fun slowww burn paranormal romance. It starts out w some comfort tropes that feel Wattpad-y (mafia, forced prox) but flips them on their head. AE Bennet’s serulatta saga is full of misc romances of all sorts over a dystopian fantasy world. Silver Blood by TL Morgan is amazing mm vamp romance. SC Grayson has a variety of fun fantasy romance. A Thorn-Kindled Flame is a sweet Hades x Perseph retelling. I can keep going if you have more specifics!!
I don’t like SA scenes in general I feel like now in days it’s way too normalized and yes it does happen and there should be awareness but every single book does not need an SA scene you can create trauma and drama/ plot without having that not to mention a lot of these books don’t actually bring awareness so I agree wholeheartedly with your point