Anonymous #1 16h

Ppl keep telling me this. But I love him. will he come back? He’s played this avoiding tactic b4 and he always comes back. And now he unliked all my insta posts, removed this one final pic he still had up of us and blocked mind u we agreed to be on a break and talk but he ghosted me. And im hearing mixed statements but what if he blocked me bc he thinks I have another guy? It’s only been a month but I did post flowers and pottery date on my story. No one was is it, js the guys hand ig ☹️

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Anonymous OP 16h

girl he’s NOT coming back i’m sorry but he played right in ur face 😔

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Anonymous #2 16h

Then why say I love you and cry while he’s doing it for the second time. Tellin me how he doesn’t want a relationship ship rn but in rekindle in December. Why date me at all if I was js a sex fog he could’ve stayed single. Why say u love me if u were js gonna hurt me. Why give me hope if there shoulda been none of getting back

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Anonymous OP 16h

they don’t don’t gaf. it sucks but THATS the reason to move on. when u realize how little he actually gave a shit it should piss u off bc u deserve better. go find better queen don’t give this pos ur time or energy. it’ll drain u and make u ugly ☹️💔

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Anonymous #2 15h

Here’s some experience from someone probably a little older. Me and my ex dated for 5 years, she cheated on me, I wanted to try and fix things but you can’t change someone else. When we broke up, I was crying and telling her I loved her and she said all those things back. For a year she lead a string along. The reason why he’s doing what he’s doing is because it’s easy to come back, it’s comfortable, and to be honest it’s never going to truly work. Sure maybe there is a 5% chance things go back.

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Anonymous #2 15h

What if I got lucky and I’m not pretty enough to get somebody like that again?

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Anonymous #1 15h

But realistically, it’s never going to happen and if it does, you’ll be in the same situation later. You need to think for yourself and do what’s best for you.

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Anonymous #3 15h

I think I js got lucky w him liek I don’t think im pretty enough to get sm like as smart and good looking as him. Regardless of him being a dick

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Anonymous OP 15h

ur clearly not lucky tho😭that’s just not lucky

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Anonymous #1 15h

Thank you this helps a lot. It’s js hard to move on yk? Esp considering he was my first everything

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Anonymous OP 15h

It’s definitely hard but that’s what’s going to make you stronger. What you need for yourself is to build confidence in yourself. Trust me you are lucky because he’s gone. You need someone that treats you as an equal and makes you want to better yourself. Even if he comes back, for your sake say no. You’re probably prettier than you think. Self hate is the easiest hate.

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Anonymous #1 15h

Awww this is true but my type is white light brunette, pretty eyes, nice smile, tall asf, atheltic build, and smart and academically inclined. And I feel like I like im the middle of bumblefuck so it’s so rare to find for some reason. Ppl are like go out. WHERE. I’m not gonna find my husband and frat. Also im south Asian, so ppl alr dislike me js bc of my race and its js sad

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