I’m sorry I don’t understand the question Are you asking what would make someone go to the extreme extent of revenge after breaking up? Even if there wasn’t any cheating? Or are you asking what makes someone cheat? Cheating is abnormal behavior in general and only comes from people who settle in relationships for people who like them more than they can reciprocate, so the emotions feel fake. Faking things gets old quick and the real personality comes out sooner or later.
I have a friend who cheated wasn’t exposed but he’s a cheater.. Him and his girlfriend broke up and he is so lost without her misses her, and does the most extreme things to “win her back” Obviously it’s not love because if it was he wouldn’t cheat in the first place im asking what his deal is basically
Sounds like the guy lost something There are many people in the world that have the aspect of not knowing what they have until it’s gone These are people who believe there is always something better coming along Which means they are never loyal to what they are, they’ll always change to fit whatever seems to be the best Like I said, fake.