100% I tell people this all the time and they give me shit for it. When you’re in the throes of it though I don’t think you want to hear it. But it’s so true. I even feel healthier now that I’m not obsessing over how sick I am all the time. Really the best thing I’ve ever ever ever done for myself
to my chronic illness, talked about it a lot more than i do now, etc. I understand that awareness is important (I helped establish a disability awareness org on my campus), and that sometimes being sick does feel like its consuming everything but one i got back into things I enjoyed I feel a lot happier even though my health continues to decline
I will say I’ve always been confused by how people make their social lives about their disabilities (like base their insta on it). I’ve always assumed it was coping and I do appreciate the people who do disability activism, i just know for me it would be unhealthy. Also bc I’m just a very private person.
I will say tho, I did talk about it a lot and make everything I did about it when I first got diagnosed. Which I feel is an appropriate response, especially when trying to figure out my limits and what accommodations I need. But now that’s I’ve gotten more used to it, and understand my body more, I rarely talk about it unless necessary or if people ask and I feel like sharing.