At the end of the day, attraction is completely subjective. What one person finds “unimpressive,” someone else may find absolutely beautiful. Dismissing someone by saying they only “have tits because they’re fat” is both disrespectful and irrelevant, because bodies come in all shapes and sizes, and people are drawn to different things. Some appreciate curves, softness, and fullness just as much as others admire slim or athletic builds.
Fair enough, you didn’t call her ugly but saying she’s “unimpressive” still comes down to personal taste. Some people aren’t impressed by boob jobs, some aren’t impressed by curves, some aren’t impressed by super skinny bodies. That doesn’t make any of them less valid, it just means they’re not for you. Attraction isn’t universal, it’s opinion-based, and what leaves you unimpressed could be exactly what someone else finds amazing, so just don’t try to influence others
#1 might be on to something, I get the feeling a lot of this comes from personal bias … if you’re someone without boobs yourself, it makes sense why you’d be quick to downplay or call them “unimpressive.” People often dismiss what they don’t have or don’t value, and that’s fine, but it doesn’t change the fact that plenty of others see it differently. What might not impress you could be exactly what someone else finds attractive, so it really just comes down to perspective.
Ahhhh that makes sense now, Saying she’s “unimpressive” just screams jealousy, to be honest. If you really had nothing to envy, you wouldn’t bother trying to downplay her at all. The fact you feel the need to justify it by comparing her to a boob job just makes it sound like you’re pressed that she gets attention in a way you don’t.🫡
Exactly YOUR THREAD, It’s wild to me that instead of lifting other women up, you went out of your way to create a whole thread to hate on one. That’s not confidence, that’s insecurity dressed up as opinion. Women tearing down other women isn’t power, it’s just jealousy on display because if you were really secure in yourself, you wouldn’t feel the need to compare or belittle someone else’s body in the first place.
It’s actually shocking you’re trying to tell me, a woman, that I shouldn’t have an opinion about another woman.. simply because they’re ALSO a woman? Am I not giving her the attention she wanted? She asked “how do you like the view” I stated my opinion, you’re the one with the problem. Did I attack her sense of character? No. I talked about my thoughts on said “view” I’m unimpressed.
You can “feel any type of way,” sure, but there’s a big difference between having an opinion and making a whole thread to downplay another woman’s body. Nobody said you can’t have thoughts it’s the fact you felt the need to broadcast them in a way that drags another woman down. That is hating, no matter how you dress it up. If you were really just “unimpressed,” you could’ve scrolled on.
By making her the focus of your content or commentary, you’ve shifted attention away from the original post and onto your own reaction. This doesn’t reflect anything about her or her choices it reflects your own feelings, such as envy, insecurity, or the need to assert your opinion. Her picture existed independently, but your response turned it into a mirror for your emotions, highlighting your jealousy far more than anything she posted could have.
Honestly, the issue isn’t me typing a lot it’s that you felt the need to publicly put down another woman just because of how she chose to present herself. That says far more about your insecurities than anything about her. Criticizing someone for expressing themselves isn’t opinion it’s judgment, and it’s ugly.
My opinion in B&W for you: Big girls naturally have bigger features. She isn’t the first big girl with a fat rack and not the last. I’m not very impressed by the image because it’s 1) degrading 2) a tacky ass outfit 3) just another big girl with low enough self esteem to post her tits but not face online. I’m not impressed whatsoever and no there’s no envy ☠️ sorry, not sorry NEXT
So your ‘opinion’ is basically tearing another woman down for existing and showing confidence in her own body. That isn’t honesty or critiqueit’s cruelty disguised as ‘taking a stand.’ Claiming you’re not envious doesn’t erase the fact that your post is all about shaming her rather than forming any real opinion.
I mean seeing someone feel entitled to publicly shame another woman for her body makes me question the kind of energy you put out into the world. You say it’s your opinion, but calling it ‘not impressed’ while dissecting her self-esteem isn’t harmless commentary it’s toxic, and yes, it matters to the people who witness it, does it affect my life nah, but I have time today 🫡