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Confessions 1d

I wanna dump my bf before I start school 😭

Anonymous 1d

do it RN

Anonymous 23h

then do it bro this is the dumbest comment ive ever seen

Anonymous 23h

If you already thinking this way you should do it, otherwise bro deserves better

Anonymous 23h

This is what I think you should ask yourself: 1. How long have you two been together? 2. Do you care deeply about this person(love them )? 3. Is it going to be long distance? (over 250 miles away) 4. What would be your reasoning for breaking up? (To have that college experience, to truly focus on school, to save money on expenses like birthday, holidays, and anniversaries?) I would also tell him your reasoning and be honest about it.

Anonymous 22h

Oh so u just tryna fuh everything 😭

Anonymous 23h

wait stop bc me too bc he’s already insecure about me going out even though i’ve never broken the trust but he has. and i don’t want to be with an insecure man in college that takes away from my experience.

Anonymous 23h

DO IT

Anonymous 23h

dont wait.

Anonymous 22h

The options are either dump him now or wait till school starts and deal with all the drama of a break up then. I can guarantee you will break up with him at some point so why not just get it over with now

Anonymous 22h

jfc just do it if you’re thinking about it. your bf deserves not to be strung along

🥞

Anonymous 22h

Literally do it. I went into college with a relationship thinking this way and I wish I stuck to my guns and broke up with him JUST DO IT

Anonymous 22h

I dumped my high school boyfriend before college and I’m glad I did because I wound up meeting my fiancé shortly after

Anonymous 22h

As someone who got dumped, the sooner the quicker and actually talk to him about it… discarding is nasty

Anonymous 22h

I just broke up with my bf of 4.5 years and I’m going into my senior year. My advice - do it if he’s not making you happy. Do it if he’s not giving you want you want and need. If you are already thinking of ending things chances are there are things in your relationship that might not be working for you. And that’s okay!! Give yourself some grace and also be fair to him. Don’t lead him along on a string if your heart isn’t fully in it. That will just lead to more heartbreak down the road.

Anonymous 21h

Yeah f relationships just screw guys all over school

Anonymous 22h

Do it quickly

Anonymous

#2 1d

No for real, because the longer you go back and forth with yourself about it, the easier it is to second guess your decision & possibly even talk yourself out of it.

Anonymous

#3 23h

Alright chill

Anonymous

#4 23h

Gf and I have been together for 7 years now, about to become my fiancé. But right before college she started getting into her head and thinking about breaking up because of her friends, saying that would want to have a college experience.

Anonymous

#4 23h

That being said a college experience is different for everyone, you don’t need to go to parties every week and get wasted, don’t need random hook ups( personally seen the down fall of a lot of friends I know who did this) the college experience is what you make it to be. It’s not a set guideline you gotta follow.

Anonymous

#4 23h

My gf was happy we didn’t break up. Because she always had someone in her corner to rant to, to support her, to love and cuddle her, to listen to her so she felt heard. You’re not guaranteed friends your first month or year in college. So it’s nice to always have someone who knows you from the start.

Anonymous

#4 23h

A quote I like to go by is “The group gets smaller every year, but your heart grows bigger everyday”, meaning your close friends will no longer be close, people fade away/drift apart but it’s the ones that you love with all your heart. Anyways. Make a wise and knowledgeable choice, hope you well in life!

Anonymous

#10 22h

Nah I ain’t wanna do this but these girls be lookin for clips

Anonymous

#11 22h

Nah pronto task don’t delay ts

Anonymous

#13 22h

make your own decisions, itll help you grow da

Anonymous

#6 22h

omg this just gave me déjà vu, i went into my freshman year of college with a boyfriend exactly like that (he broke my trust, i never did, insecure as hell, all of the above) and he was so insecure that i lost SOO many good friendships and opportunities because he would be so upset and scared at everything. i cannot recommend it to you enough to break it off as quick as you can if you’re already thinking about it. if you don’t (from what you’ve described) he will very possibly ruin your year.

Anonymous

#11 21h

I eat ass

Anonymous

#19 21h

Also couples therapy exists

Anonymous

#20 21h

Couples therapy would not have fixed shit lol.

Anonymous

#19 21h

Or just simply talk things out maybe even body slam each other

Anonymous

#20 21h

You know I didn’t think of the body slamming idea