Say it doesn’t make sense financially for you right now, no one puts up a fight w that

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If u push yourself to go and just try and enjoy yourself making the most out of it I think you would have fun!

46

Offer an alternative? Anytime I don’t want to go to something if it’s hosted by someone I would feel bad canceling on I just offer to lunch with them within the week fr

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Honestly, I say go. You only live once and you might be pleasantly surprised by how fun it is. And if you don’t have fun that’s okay, you showed up and you tried and that’s all that matters. And if you don’t go that’s also okay!

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It’s an invite it doesn’t mean you have to go there is nothing wrong with not going and if you do go and can’t stand her friends then wouldn’t that make everyone feel awkward and you might not be able to enjoy it cause you don’t like people there

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I’d say go, and if you really are having that horrible of a time you can always leave. It’s only a 2 hour drive

7

if you truly don’t want to go then don’t. i’m sure she doesn’t want people there who don’t wanna be there on her big day.

5

This was the case for me once, the main reason was so I could be there for my best friend since she too wasn’t close with most of her sisters friends. We were also the only ones underage but the brides sister (my bff) was the MOH so she wasn’t gonna not go. It ended up being a lot of fun, we ate all their snacks and drank all their booze and got to finish whatever drinks they didn’t like when the bartender wasn’t looking lol. Don’t speak to a single one of her sisters friends to this day!

5

i’d say go but if you’re really getting whipped out of shape about it then don’t go. I’m assuming your best friend will also be there, that seems like a fun time

2

speaking from experience I go and make up an excuse after an hour and do something in the area( just to explore something new) before I drive home

2

Ur single being invited to a bachelorette party… go

2

let her know sooner than later, politely explain that you have something else that weekend that u cant miss

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Nope, don’t go!! Just be respectful when you decline.

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She may have invited you for your best friend but idk yall do idk

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just go

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