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Confessions 17h
My mother is making me marry my cousin so he doesn’t get deported but I don’t want to. I’m a college student and I have a boyfriend. While my boyfriend understands the situation he isn’t 100% ok with it and neither am I, what do I do?
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Anonymous 17h

Btw she also pays for my college tuition and everything so if I go against it, I will most likely get kicked out or she will no longer fund my school. She’s very narcissistic and loves money which is why she is doing this

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Anonymous 17h

You say “No.” You are an adult, you can make your own decisions

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Anonymous 17h

uhhhhh first of all…what the fuck? second of all, don’t ruin your life. pretty sure cousin marriage is illegal in most places.

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Anonymous 17h

NO let’s marry a hot gay guy that is in the closet w religious parents for now

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Anonymous 17h

My sister said if this end up going through, I should take the 15k and put it into a new bank she doesn’t use and even if she gets mad and asks for it I say some bs like it’s locked and use that money to move out pretty much and if she still tries anything, I can tell the rest of my family abt what she did bc she doesn’t want them to know about this.

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Anonymous 16h
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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

She pays for your college tuition and she loves money? Those don’t really go hand in hand. If she loved money she would be making you pay for your own tuition so she can keep her money

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

She pays for my tuition bc she doesn’t want me to get a job or anything. She wants me and my sibling to rely on her and her only. Earlier this year my other sister ran away to live with her dad which has made her even more strict on things I can or can’t do. She has access to all my bank accounts and information. Anytime I did get a job in the past she would take the money out my account once it was deposited

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

Then what do I do when I have no where to go

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

They aren’t telling them that we are cousins 🤦🏽‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

He is also paying about 15k for it and she is already planning on taking it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

Not in all states of America, actually.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

that’s depressing asf

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

It sounds like you do, you said your sister ran away to be with your dad so do the same. Or you get a job and pay rent like other adults

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

My father is in Haiti, I’ve spent the whole summer applying to jobs and nothing, some things are easier said then done

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 13h

Bait?

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