Anonymous #1 5w

It’s just coffee but like one time I went out for ice cream and we ordered then got to the cashier and he said just that for me and I was like erm okay so what

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Anonymous OP 5w

What did he say?

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Anonymous #1 5w

Wdym?

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Anonymous OP 5w

He told you not to worry about the bill on the ice cream date?

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Anonymous #1 5w

No he didn’t say anything before hand it’s just when we showed up after ordering he only paid for his own

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Anonymous OP 5w

That’s awkward. How do you feel about that? I guess just make sure you definitely have money. The only time I pay for dates is when I’m in a long term relationship otherwise I just assume the guy will get it.

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Anonymous #1 5w

I thought it was awkward too like he wanted to hangout he asked if I wanted to go get ice cream and we ordered together then at the cashier said only his it was j v weird especially after he paid at a nicer place like 2 days prior and mine was so much less expensive than his.

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Anonymous #1 5w

I guess I’m kind of just scared of that happening again. I can’t figure out if maybe I missed some like que or something that we weren’t paying together but I don’t rly want to go through that again

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Anonymous OP 5w

That’s valid. Does that affect the way you see him at all? Personally I would be turned off if a guy made me pay for a date he invited me on

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Anonymous #1 5w

Yea it did throw me off a little especially since we weren’t close like that and this coffee guy it would be the first date. I feel like it’s ungentlemanly and I’m really not trying to date like a teenager anymore

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