
well maybe pathetic isnāt the right word itās just not what ppl prioritize in their 30s iād think i donāt think young parents are pathetic as long as ur mental and financial ready to handle that type of life many ppl have kids at all ages ant struggle so thereās no real āperfectā time for kids or anything like that itās just whenever u are truly ready for it i feel ! If u wanna have kids in ur 30s or party in ur 30s itās whatever i feel everyone should live the life they want !
Well I had her a week before I turned 20 and my bf and I had been together for years at that point(and still r not tryna be weird with wording) we were already living on our own and are engaged so it wasnāt too crazy but it wasnāt 100% planned it was kinda like a we were ready but didnāt think weād get prego so quick but once again everyone has a diff life and should live it how they wish !