
that’s fair, he said that too like if you’re in a relationship you should never be at the strip club. i honestly don’t see much wrong with it because i feel like because it’s girls it’s more of like a omgg yess get it thing but i’m trying to put it more into his perspective to understand
I would say to talk it out. I don’t think objectively if ur going to have a fun time with friends and not do anything sus relationship wise that it would be fine as long as yall talk it out. Because while it would be kinda immature if u just go and say fuck what he thinks he could say that he feels unheard in the relationship
for me i’ve never really had any wrong ideas of a strip club because i’ve been to clubs almost bordering to what a strip club is, like a gay bar with gay male gogo dancers wearing speedos. i’ve also just always wanted to go one day with my friends. it’s just something for me personally that i’ve never really seen anything wrong with and the people i’m surrounded by are like minded as well