I agree that you shouldn’t enter a marriage for sex, but I also think that it’s wise for some people to wait because the partner that waits for you shows how much they are willing to neglect themselves and sacrifice for your happiness and comfort. So if a man can’t wait for me, then that’ll be the end of the relationship because he’s not willing to put his lust aside and wait a couple years til we marry
Sex is a very important aspect to me in long-term relationships, especially in a marriage, since hopefully that person will be the only one I’m ever married to again. That’s why I have talks about sexual things (what we both like/dislike, boundaries, triggers, etc) before we even have it or have that chance to fall in love or the relationship gets too serious
If we find out we’re not sexually compatible just by talking or trying things together, then we can leave the relationship, because I would not limit myself to someone I’m not even sure I’ll like in 10 years, who also isn’t compatible with me sexually, just because they’re another human being. Sex is definitely not everything, but everyone has needs, including my future partner and I