Confessions on Yik Yak | Woman: actively has a sneaky link Woman: also wants me to take her on a date Me: no Her: 😡😡 IM NOT TAKING A WOMAN OUT WHO GOT RAILED TWO DAYS AGO⁉️⁉️ AM I CRAZY?

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Confessions 10w

Woman: actively has a sneaky link Woman: also wants me to take her on a date Me: no Her: 😡😡 IM NOT TAKING A WOMAN OUT WHO GOT RAILED TWO DAYS AGO⁉️⁉️ AM I CRAZY?

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Anonymous 10w

I feel you lol. You want me to take you out but the other guy was just coating your throat? Find somebody else to do it

Anonymous 10w

Scared cuz his splooge is stronger

Anonymous 10w

if you were open about wanting to be exclusive then i understand why you’d be upset, if you weren’t open about it then she can have sex with whoever she wants while also going on dates with people if that’s her vibe

Anonymous 10w

Like others have said, everyone has preferences, but I respectfully disagree. I see a tinge of double standards here, because I don’t think the same would be said for men who want to date while having a sneaky link themselves

Anonymous 10w

i get where you’re coming from but usually that sneaky link is just to fulfill a physical need. personally, i snap out of being a ho the second i have romantic interest & a lot of people r like that

Anonymous 10w

I agree with you

Anonymous 10w

Nothing wrong with you. I think hookup culture is the devil at work. It’s ruining everything just cause people want meaningless pleasure

Anonymous 10w

I don’t think women that are going on dates with men usually tell them they have an active sneaky link

Anonymous 10w

You sound like a loser ngl and this is coming from a man

Anonymous 10w

guys we are calling the men insecure because OP post is what men do literally all the time they go from girl to girl and we mostly accept it we know yall are sleeping w other people but it’s not okay when we do it? giving insecure, can’t go tit for tat without getting emotional vibe. Welcome to what it’s like for women in the dating world, it makes me so happy we are flipping the script now and making yall sad instead.

Anonymous 10w

damn right OP

Anonymous 10w

Everyone is allowed preferences.

Anonymous 10w

i guarantee you something is being left out

Anonymous 10w

I’m confused as to why she even told you she has a sneaky link

Anonymous 10w

Bro you mad? If she likes dates with you. She actually sees an opportunity with you. She’s not putting all her eggs in one basket and it’s normal to want sex but fuck there’s ppl I would NEVER date. But those appointments do hit. Most people are adults and can set asides casual and emotional expectations. She’s giving you grace and respect by not fucking on you and screwing things up

Anonymous 10w

I just constantly hear women say but it’s okay for men. I don’t do it, none of my friends do it. Out of every man I’ve wver met in my entire life maybe 1-2% do and most people don’t like them. Sure they like each other but whatever. It’s not just exclusivity. How can I be confident they liked me that much when they can go on a date and then get plowed by someone else they don’t have a thing with later. Nah. Me or nothing at all stages. But I also make that clear pretty early

Anonymous 10w

If she’s going about it right you’re not supposed to know she has an active sneaky link situation going on 😘

Anonymous 10w

This is my one beef with dating apps I just can’t do it bc I know they’re talking to/potentially fucking at least 10 other girls at the same time. Is it so much to ask for the traditional love story nowadays :(

Anonymous 10w

There is no grey area when it comes to commitment. Either you are or aren’t looking for a commitment and make that clear from the beginning. You can’t expect someone to commit to a maybe.

Anonymous 10w

Yeah that’s not wrong at all. Sounds like a degen woman u should stay away from

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Anonymous 10w

“She has been tainted by the seed of another man. Enter her womb at your own peril for the evil that lives in the other man’s soul will enter your shaft and live in your ballsack until your day of judgement”. Wise words from the book of genesis 🙏

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Anonymous 10w

you don’t have to take them out, just fuck them too and be done with it, i knew a girl who went out the night before and came to me with a hickey on her neck, i just got drunk with her fucked the shit out of her and dropped her off 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous

#8 10w

Grow up

Anonymous

#9 10w

Grow a sense of humor

Anonymous

#8 10w

You’re just not funny😭 you probably call slurs “dark humor”

Anonymous

#8 10w

Grown ass person talkin like a corn addict

Anonymous

#9 10w

Single bitches are mad at me and think I’m a corn addicted man and not an engaged women

Anonymous

#8 10w

Cuz I made a joke where literal splooge is the punchline

Anonymous 10w

Thank you <3

Anonymous

#8 10w

I don’t think you understand how punchlines work; the punchline of your joke is actually the degradation of OP, not the word splooge😭praying for your husband 🤦🏽‍♂️🙏🏾(see there the punchline is in the phrase “praying for your husband;” this is just more efficient than saying “your husband unfortunately will have to lower his comedic standards” or something akin)

Anonymous

#10 10w

your country is beyond fucked. any hopes of stable family life on an aggregate level is completely shredded to ruins

Anonymous

#7 10w

You’re actually wrong about what a punchline is but I don’t have the energy to fully explain what it is on an anonymous app. Haha op has weak come is that better

Anonymous

#14 10w

I’m literally waiting till engagement to have sex. Why are assuming things here? 😭👎 She just did something that was a turn off i don’t hate her for it that was just wild to do

Anonymous

#7 10w

Tbh I don’t think all of this was that serious 😭

Anonymous

OP 10w

honestly not a good idea cause like what if they are bad and what if yall don’t have flow like 😭

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Anonymous

#14 10w

Ah so OP can’t feel bothered when a woman does it because asshole men exist, got it

Anonymous

#15 10w

While the joke did suck a bit, ur right it’s not that deep I was just in awe that someone would get upset at me for not wanting to date them while they are actively having sex w someone else😭

Anonymous

#15 10w

It’s not making uppity people squirm was my personal laugh for the morning

Anonymous

#14 10w

Sex is a big thing for me, I see it as the most intimate connection you can have with someone so I don’t just do it with anyone. I strongly dislike hookup culture specifically because I think sex should be more than 15 minutes of feel good time

Anonymous

#16 10w

all i’m saying is not even OP specifically like even the other men that get so emotional when it’s not exclusive like they haven’t alr been sleeping w other girls and we obviously know about them but when we do it they get mad and emotional im j saying it’s kinda funny to see them so uncomfortable taking their own medicine but also hypocritical of them. Like husbands were allowed to cheat but the wives weren’t? Kings could have bastard children but women would be executed for it? same shit now

Anonymous

OP 10w

You’re so valid and the fact that every woman has dealt with a man or a few who operate the same as the woman you dealt with should be further validation not something to tear you down about and I am sorry for being all jokey in the comments don’t sacrifice your morals for anything

Anonymous 10w

Ooo you know how to read ai descriptions

Anonymous 10w

You’re so smart you can operate google ai

Anonymous

#14 10w

The problem is you’re making a lot of assumptions. People are coming in here calling OP insecure for a 100% reasonable take just because other men who have nothing to do with him are assholes. Literally all OP said was they don’t want to date someone who’s sleeping around.

Anonymous

OP 10w

i agree but maybe wait until your dating and like in love? I mean do what you want and if that’s what you wanna do i don’t think it’s a bad thing at all especially cause men never do that. I just think sometimes it takes a while to adjust to eachother and know their preferences and would make the wedding night actually good if you already knew what they liked and they knew your preferences and overall you alr know you go well in that department but again you do you idrc lol.

Anonymous 10w

I know a kid (14) who ended it cuz he got depression advice from the same source that told him to end it it’s such a great source for complete information that isn’t just regurgitated Reddit info half the time

Anonymous

#13 10w

Oh no women no longer stay with the first man who took interest in them at 17 and we have no fault divorces now. There’s a million things wrong with our country I don’t think the nuclear family model falling out of style is one of them

Anonymous

#13 10w

It really ain’t that bad lol

Anonymous

#11 10w

Might as well let him hit first and get the sex out the way

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Anonymous

#8 10w

Two of those problems being 80% of divorces being initiated by women and the court giving a “golden parachute” favoring the woman to take half of a man’s net worth. Marriage has no benefit to men, women most affected.

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Anonymous

#21 10w

Real!

Anonymous

#29 10w

Most cringe shi I read this week 🤣

Anonymous

#33 10w

If that’s what you want then you try being friends first. But also this isn’t totally a product of dating apps. People have been seeing several people at once for a while, the apps just widen the pool I guess

Anonymous

#33 10w

But again you should clarify this is what you want from the go, and if it’s harder to find someone that’s probably just how it’s gonna be idk what to say. Stick to your beliefs though it’ll work out eventually

Anonymous

#19 10w

I’m ngl for a lot of people I feel like that ends up just being a difference in morals. Like if you’re having sex outside of a relationship what’s the point of having a relationship instead of friendships in the first place?

Anonymous

OP 10w

Because relationships aren’t just about sex

Anonymous

#19 10w

Not dissing you or anything but whats the difference in a close friendship vs a relationship if the intimacy is openly available to anyone

Anonymous

#19 10w

I worded it poorly, but it still applies. If you’re getting intimacy and lust from someone else, how is that any different from having a really close friend you link w on occasion. Asking a real question here

Anonymous

#19 10w

I feel like I shouldn’t have to clarify that I don’t want the person I’m dating seeing other people tho :( what’s wrong w society today that that’s something you actually have to set boundaries for?? Back in the day my parents had to wait for the landline in their dorm to be open so they could call each other each night😔 there was no question that they were only talking to each other but now social media has made it WAY too easy to be entertaining 10+ people at once. That’s not normal or right

Anonymous

OP 10w

Well that’s hard to put into words. But first of all the intimacy is definitely not available to anyone lol I have standards. Second of all, having sex in general is often, but having sex with someone you love is a truly different experience. And it’s not just having a friend. She’s my best friend and then some. She’s someone I want to be around all the time. Idk how to describe it exactly, but we’re in love, not friendship. I have some great friends in my life, but my girlfriend is special to>

Anonymous

OP 10w

me in such a different way

Anonymous

#33 10w

Lol this is definitely not new. I’m happy for your parents, but idk if you know what the 60s and 70s were like but people were really throwing themselves around

Anonymous

#19 10w

My bad I meant to say having sex in general is fun not often

Anonymous

OP 10w

Have you been in a serious relationship before?

Anonymous

#35 10w

Thank you for explaining this! It’s a false stereotype people think about men in general. When in reality, if you have a group of 20 dudes, it’s usually like 1 person who sleeps around with 20+ women, and the other 19 dudes are either virgins or maybe have been in 1 or 2 relationships and maybe hooked up a couple of times in the past

Anonymous

#27 10w

i think you choose your circle. neither men or women are particularly ”slutty” or whatever you’d want to say. it’s moreso who YOU are that determines if the people you know are participating. that said, the frustration expressed by women may be that it’s a double standard in how men v. women are treated for having more sexual experience. the classic player v. slut scenario.

Anonymous

#19 10w

Only once. We never had sex because it was only 6 months long. Ended up breaking up because she failed all of her classes and went back home😭

Anonymous

OP 10w

wait are you a virgin?

Anonymous

#31 10w

Yeah, I’m in a red state so I’m waiting in case pregnancy occurs (even with contraceptives) so I want to make sure Im willing to have a child with someone if I have sex

Anonymous

OP 10w

Ah sucks sorry. Bottom line, a lot of people view sex differently, and that’s all understandable and influenced by many factors. At the end of the day we should all be respectful and honest about our intentions and our feelings for one another, and it shouldn’t be a problem. You’ll also find a girl who isn’t doing that I’m sure

Anonymous

OP 10w

yeah, no judgement! i do just wanna say that it’s really easy to have strong opinions about people who do have sex, what their morals are, what kind of person they are, etc. (and also what sex itself is like) when you’ve never actually been in their shoes… so just be mindful

Anonymous

#31 10w

Yeah others are welcome to live however they want. My problem with her specifically was how is she gonna have sex two days before trying to go out with ME then get mad when I cancel because I found out😭

Anonymous

#37 10w

I dont think that’s what they want lol

Anonymous

#37 10w

OP is waiting a bit for sex

Anonymous

#43 10w

Lol yeah it’s called a SNEAKY link

Anonymous

#47 10w