you don’t tell her you want to get to know her… you ask her questions to get to know her. that’s how you build a relationship. as a woman i don’t want pickup lines i want genuine interest beyond my looks. most men don’t ask me a single question beyond sexual topics and it’s incredibly disappointing. if you want a girl that wants pickup lines keep doing that tho
if you’re messaging her that already indicates you find her attractive and want to talk to her. use the opportunity to actually get to know her. not just tell her you want to talk and you want to get to know here. in my experience speaking with men ends up being really boring bc they don’t care to get to know you or find common interests.