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Confessions 5w
Not having real, genuine friends that I can hang out with sometimes and talk to everyday is such a heart breaking & mentally draining feeling
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Anonymous 5w

No fr same 😭

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Anonymous 5w

That’s so frr. I thought I would have like an established friend group. Don’t get me wrong, I’m grateful for the friends I got rn, but I j feel like an actual friend group would be nice

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Anonymous 5w

It really sucks the life out of you when you finally think you found that typa friend group after years of lonelines then it all goes to hell within 6 months lmao!!!

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Anonymous 5w

I relate so hard. After reading your replies to other ppl, you put all my thoughts into words lol. I actually HAVE been putting myself out there and yet it seems impossible to make any lasting connections :( it’s weird bc I’ve never had trouble making friends before and I like to think I’m a really GOOD friend but idk it feels so hard here to actually connect yk?

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Anonymous 5w

you gotta out yourself out there and meet people. the right ones will stick. just don’t tolerate what you know isn’t right for you because then thats what you attract.

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Anonymous 5w

I get it. One of my biggest goals is to have a friend group that does everything together. I’m so jealous of all the people who can go out with like ten friends whenever they want

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Anonymous 5w

Realll. Let’s be friends!

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Anonymous 5w

Y’all just gotta all meet up in the comments and hangout tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Like I want to be spontaneous and go out and do fun dumb shit and idk just be outside and live life. be around society and people. Instead I’m just in my house day in and day out just hanging out by myself haha

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Oh I do that stuff by myself. I would go to parks and just walk around for awhile and listen to YouTube, or go swimming by myself. I liked doing that, but some things like swimming just made me feel alone seeing other people together, and while I could converse with them, it wouldn’t be the same as if I was friends with them

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I feel ya. I just can’t seem to bring myself to do anything by myself. I’m comfortable by myself but being out in public by myself makes my skin crawl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

The way I see it, if I’m gonna sit in bed and watch YouTube, I might as well be a little active while doing it. Still watching YouTube either way, but it’s a little more productive

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

I have a wonderful group of childhood friends. Like we truly beat the odds and have stayed close friends but we’re all older and living in different states now, yanno? Some of them have families now. We get together once or twice every year and talk almost every day but as far as a friend group where I live now since moving? It’s nonexistent

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Dang what happened

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Relatable

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 5w

I feel u bro. I’m the same way😭

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