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i met this man online and he’s really cool and attractive but everyday he sends me a picture of his body with the same caption about not wanting to get out of bed and idk why it’s starting to annoy me lol. just the caption, i don’t mind the pictures
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Anonymous 9w

but he knows i don’t send nudes or anything and when i’ve tried to get to know him more over text he left me on read so idk it’s kinda awkward

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Anonymous 9w

idk how many different ways i can reply to a man saying he’s staying in bed

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Anonymous 9w

Be straight up with him. Tell him you tryna get to know him more. If he doesn’t care then maybe he’s just wanting to be fuck buddies

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Anonymous 9w

like are all men just boring as hell to talk to? i’ve only met one man that i enjoyed talking to and it was my manipulative ex so idk starting to lose hope

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

i mean i think it’s pretty clear that i want to get closer to him. i told him i really enjoy talking to him. but he lives in a different state so i’m not gonna go visit someone unless i know them well. he seemed interested in me visiting but hasn’t let me get to know him anymore since then! literally left me on read when i asked him a question lol. i’m down for just being fuck buddies but that includes actually being buddies imo

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Then if he doesn’t answer your questions/tries to at least have some flavor (express himself) then get rid of him. I’m sure you’ll easily find someone else

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

thanks. i think you’re right. i’m just super picky so when i find someone i’m interested in it’s hard to let go 😅

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

I get you, and I’m the same way as a guy, but I always remind myself that I shouldn’t create an image of them of who I want them to be, and instead actually see who they are and if I still vibe with them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

good point. i need to remember that too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Best of luck 🫡 if you ever need more advice hmu and make sure you rate me 5 stars on Yelp

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