
There’s this phenomenon I’ve noticed a lot where straight men will make disgusting comments like this about women and people’s first reaction is to either outright call them gay or insinuate that they’re gay. And idk, that just never sat right with me. Like people who are supposed to be allies are often the first person to do this and it’s like… can’t you see doing this is counterproductive?
Mr “I’d much rather have a dick” can keep his DUH-ick. He will never have the same level of joy known only to those of us who grow our children in our bodies and birth them through our “stinky holes”, then nourish them with only our ta-ta juice for an entire year (or longer). I would go through all of the pain and bleeding and emotional roller coaster rides 1 million times over and it would still not even come close to compare with the sheer happiness of being a mom Also, umm I’d rather sit!
gay guys arent attracted to vaginas. straight men should be… if a guys calling vaginas disgusting i doubt that man is attracted to vagina, therefore i said “straight” like genuinely i get what yourw saying in terms of like for ex when a straight guy cheats on a girl and people call him “gay” bc of that. like that guys straight just an asshole. this isnt that. or at least it wasnt my intention. just what straight guy is disgusted by vagina wtf.
like youre taking something thats true and applying it to the wrong thing. this man wasnt just being hateful of women and i called him gay for it. he SPECIFICALLY went on a rant about how vagina is digusting and he thinks dick is better lmao??? please use critical thinking skills
bc they’re not saying it bc they’re secretly attracted to men! they’re saying it because they HATE WOMEN. there is no correlation to a misogynist being gay!! they literally just hate women and are disgusted by our natural bodies because they’re MISOGYNISTS and calling them gay or acting like this behavior is just bc they’re in the closet or whatever does nothing but distract from the actual problem of their misogyny
Idk, it’s just another one of those things where gay people start catching strays when the conversation was never even about them. And it’s the ally who takes the conversation there in these cases which in turn sets the stage for homophobia. Can’t we just stay focused on the actual problem, which is the straight guy being misogynistic?
Never said that gay men couldn’t be misogynistic. I agree. I’ve seen it, I’ve lived it. We are on the same page there. I just see this conversation a lot coming from specifically straight men and somehow it always comes back to being a gay person’s fault. All I’m saying is be conscious of how this comes off
this would be a different convo if you actually knew he was gay but you don’t. you’re just making assumptions. gay men obviously can be misogynists and make disgusting comments about women but the fact he MIGHT be gay really has no relevance. maybe he’s gay maybe he isn’t but at the end of the day he IS a misogynist. focus on that instead of his sexuality
idk that seems pretty gay to me 😭 i wasn’t trying to push the narrative that this is something gay men do and only theyre capable of misogyny nor trying to imply that we should be homophobic omg. but i apologize, ill be more mindful of what i say in the future i dont want to offend anyone or spread hate
he said he prefers having a dick not that he prefers getting with dick. i think both of you have a point but i agree with #11 that spreading the idea that “hating women” makes you gay is kinda in the same space as “he’s a boy not a man.” it dismisses the actual problem, which is men being misogynistic, and him hating a women’s body is a manifestation of that, not necessarily him liking men. i understand where you’re coming from but i think it’s a bit counterintuitive in this argument
1 I’m not a man 2 I think it’s important to have compassion for everyone, we are all human and if you let yourself hate a whole group of people you are just being foolish. I’m not saying to trust all men but just using the blanket statement that they deserve to be lonely is a really sad mindset.