Anonymous #1 4w

Not doing oral is pretty gay tbh

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Anonymous #2 4w

Yep sorry but so-called straight men who don’t eat pussy need to be called tf out.

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Kinda ridiculous most guys expect head but wine those it. It’s not like dicks taste like lollipops

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Damn that’s crazy. I taste myself all the time and have never once thought of a battery. But go off. I’m sure your partners love that comparison

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Anonymous #5 4w

yes exactly you get it!

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Anonymous #1 4w

They might be asexual and just don’t know it

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Anonymous #7 4w

It’s disgusting to see people disagreeing with this. Here’s a situation: a woman says up front that she doesn’t want to give her partner head. She’s uncomfortable with it. He says “it’s gay if u don’t. I don’t care that u don’t want to. Get ur head over here.” Does this sound like it’s not SA or coercion to you?

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Anonymous #5 4w

I hate when people use “well what if it was the other way around arguments” bc it assumes we live in a fair society where we’re all on even playing field when that’s complete bs.

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Anonymous #5 4w

i mean no one said they’re gonna force him, people are saying IN GENERAL the idea of it is weird i wouldn’t even say necessarily gay but i could understand why people are like weird towards it. especially when a man EXPECTS head and doesn’t want to give the same thing back

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Anonymous #7 4w

Like most a lot of men expect head but won’t give in return. And I reserve the right to say that’s gay

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Anonymous #2 4w

Are u kidding me? Pressuring someone to do a sexual act is ok since it’s not a girl? Ur the problem.

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Anonymous #5 4w

I think you guys lost the point. The point was that that guy didn’t even want to finger a girl. If you don’t even want to touch a pussy then maybe you’re just in the closet

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Anonymous #5 4w

mf you’re acting dumb on purpose wtf is up 😭

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Anonymous #7 4w

He never said he expected head. And that’s called pressuring someone to do something they’re not comfortable doing. It has nothing to do with being gay.

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Anonymous #2 4w

In what way is that gay

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Anonymous #6 4w

Ur delusional.

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Anonymous #7 4w

Tell me what’s dumb

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Anonymous #5 4w

Can you stfu

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Anonymous #6 4w

Both of you

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Anonymous #5 4w

No one said anything about pressuring people into giving head. YOU brought that up. No one was having the conversation. Obviously forcing someone to do any sexual act is bad. All anyone is doing is bringing uo the double standard

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Anonymous #5 4w

It has nothing to do with pressure. If you don’t want to eat or finger pussy but want to have sex with female identifying partners, that’s a problem because of that’s a fundamentally sexist view of sex

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Anonymous #2 4w

Um no people are saying he’s gay not saying that it’s a double standard. And that is pressuring someone. And no it’s not.

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Anonymous #5 4w

This has to be rage bait bc ur points don’t even make sense. Clearly someone insecure about not being a munch

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Anonymous #2 4w

Don’t look at me I do my service

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Anonymous #10 4w

That’s exactly what I’m saying. I’m a pillow princess and I only date stone tops.

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Anonymous #5 4w

I feel like ur deliberately missing the point. No one is talking about stone tops or pillow princesses or any of the other thousands of permutations you can create. Stop pretending all relationships have the same societal expectations or pressures. The original post was about a man who did not want to finger or give a woman oral, not about you not wanting to eat out a women. That’s literally a completely different scenario.

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I think you’re the one not getting the point tbh. Here it is: him not wanting to finger or give a person with a vagina head is not gay. Everyone is calling him gay. It’s perfectly acceptable for a straight person to not want to do certain sexual acts. Them not wanting to do it does not make them gay or sexist. That’s the point. People making him feel bad for not wanting to and essentially saying he’s not straight unless he does it is manipulative and really gives SA vibes tbh.

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Anonymous #5 4w

jesus christ. so are u saying his partner should just give him head and have sex with him but never finish. confused why ur advocating for the orgasm gap. if u can’t make ur point abt the situation at hand, maybe u need to adjust ur point of view. as someone who is primarily attracted to men, its a real problem how many men just frankly dont give a shit about their partners’ pleasures because of people like you. clearly ur triggered because of ur own experience and that’s something unrelated.

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Anonymous #2 4w

No one said anything about his partner not finishing. No one’s advocating for the orgasm gap. I’m advocating for not being a fucking predator and trying to make someone feel bad and feel like they need to perform certain acts when they don’t want to. Just because he doesn’t want to do those acts doesn’t mean he doesn’t care about his partners pleasure. It also doesn’t make him gay. Which is THE POINT.

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Anonymous #2 4w

Get help. Im not sure what about my experience gives u the idea that im triggered? But I’m not triggered I’m just not a predator.

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Anonymous #3 4w

I’m not reading all the comments cuz I’m drunk but of course sexual boundaries are totally fine!!! Good luck to the OP finding a woman who will be satisfied with him not eating her out or touching her vagina whatsoever. Just sticking his dick in her. Please ladies let me know if you’re ok with that!!! Personally it’s a hell the fuck no for me!!!!

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Anonymous #5 4w

It’s not predatory to point out that not wanting to do foreplay but still wanting to have sex with a women is kinda messed up. Forcing or coercing people to do any act they’re not comfortable with is predatory but pointing out a double standard (men expecting oral but being unwilling to give is) isn’t. Obviously within relationships between two women there’s different nuances. But that wasn’t the situation this post referenced

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Anonymous #2 4w

It’s not messed up. If u don’t want to have sex with a person who’s not comfortable doing that then don’t have sex with them. You can point out the double standard all you want but that’s not the point. The point is everyone’s calling him gay for not wanting to do something. That’s the point.

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Anonymous #5 4w

I mean I think it’s nit completely out of the question to wonder if a man is into women when he says he’s not attracted to female anatomy. This is the first comment you’ve made actually addressing the situation and not another one loosely based on the situation or a seperate completely different situation entirely

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Anonymous #2 4w

I mean it sounds like your point of view stems from being a pillow princess so it’s understandable why you feel that way and I totally understand that. All im doing is asking you to consider the situation from the pov of someone who dates men primarily and has dealt w countless men who only prioritize their own pleasure. I’m not saying they’re all gay. I’m j trying to figure out why it’s normalized

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Anonymous #3 4w

🤣🤣🤣🤣 he will find a guy dw

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Anonymous #2 4w

Yes I understand that pov and I understand it’s a problem but the problem being talked about by op is not that it’s double standard or pointing out the issue ur talking about. The problem is that they’re calling him gay for it

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Anonymous #5 4w

Well with only so much context in the guys post all we can do is jump to conclusions. Maybe he’s gay or maybe he’s an asshole who doesn’t care about a woman’s pleasure. We’ll never know

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Anonymous #5 4w

let’s be real buddy if you not fingering your girl your a p.u.s.s.y or gay this ain’t even about oral

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Anonymous #8 4w

Confused why she’s advocating against foreplay tbh

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