Anonymous #2 13w

Why would you get knocked up by a man you not even married to in the first place? Your logic is dumb and 9/10 the signs were there but you ignored them.

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Anonymous OP 13w

I mean, it’s really important to use protection, which is why I’m on birth control. But why would I marry a dude without knowing if we were sexually compatible? And if I got pregnant from unprotected sex and he ran off to do his own thing and left me to raise a child in a state where I don’t get a choice, why does that make me the fool when he also chose to have unprotected sex with someone he wasn’t married to?

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Anonymous #2 13w

So either put on protection or close it. Like you’re trying to justify having kids with no ring or no plan. Just creating mistakes and life long regret.

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Anonymous OP 13w

I’m 27 years old, employed full time, no kids, and on birth control, so you can relax. I’m fine. But I ask you again: Why are you calling out women for having sex and then raising the child, when you could be calling out men who had exactly as much of a role in the conception but didn’t have the moral fiber to fulfill their obligations?

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Okay, so he’s not at fault for having sex with me, but I’m at fault for having sex with him? Makes zero sense. And by the way, if you’re fine with these unsnipped men running around making babies and then deciding they don’t want to be fathers, you damn sure better be defending abortion access for women, especially the ones who get raped (and secretly taking the condom off is a form of assault, btw).

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Didn’t accuse you of saying rape is okay at all. You haven’t answered any of my questions directly. Hopefully you grow out of this dumb misogynistic attitude.

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Anonymous #2 13w

I never understood this type of slander, because it’s the father who abandoned his children, not the single mother who stayed to raise them by herself. Def a strange double standard

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Anonymous OP 13w

That’s common sense, and don’t project your trauma onto me. I never said anything about rape, so there’s no need to bring it up. I’m talking about two consenting adults never mentioned rape, never implied it. So that argument is dumb. Just say you got knocked up by a man you had no plan with. And then some of you go on to have multiple kids by the same deadbeat. How am I supposed to feel bad for you at that point?

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Anonymous OP 13w

Yes blame the man he is wrong but you’re wrong for lying there. You’re wrong for sleeping with a man who showed you multiple times he didn’t want kids. So don’t come at me. You don’t want to take accountability.

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Anonymous OP 13w

And we, as women, know men aren’t going to use their brains for anything. They’ll say, ‘I don’t want kids,’ then turn around and still have sex. So as a woman, you need to use your brain and think. You need to have common sense.

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