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hot take: i would never date or marry a man who has NO female friends because why can't you get along with women?
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Anonymous 1w

Good thing I have no friends in general (they werent growing like I was)

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Anonymous 1w

What if you’re just someone who is a homebody and/or someone who just doesn’t put themselves in a position to meet women?

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Anonymous 1w

so so so thankful that my bf has many female friends (and male) and that they are all normal and chill. it can be done!!

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Anonymous 1w

Unfortunately for me, my last ex cheated on me and tried to justify it by saying “it’s nothing romantic, it’s just friends with benefits”. Idk it gave me many trust issues with men after that.

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Anonymous 1w

Idk, this is something i have to think about

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Anonymous 1w

Agreed!

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Anonymous 1w

Hot take: I’d never marry a woman who prioritizes another man over me. Some women are more attracted to a man that other women want on the basis that other women want them. It’s pathetic. As a christian man, I have female friends and acquaintances, but I have strict boundaries and expectations for both myself and my partner. I have seen non-christians basically build harems with concubines that they hook up with on a whim. If someone’s best friend isn’t their spouse, many people cheat.

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Anonymous 1w

They always are in bed with the bf.🤮

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

why would you date someone you don't trust/who can't be friends with women without seeing them as sex partners

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I really need to hit up a running club or something because this shit sucks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I never met a guy who wasn’t like that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Literally none of my guy friends are like that 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

i don't want to date someone who is antisocial or a homebody either but that, like my post, is a personal preference

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

Thanks for the vote of confidence… I was in that friend group until the dynamics changed. Best of luck to you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

not a bad idea. i met one of my best guy friends in a running club a few years ago + made friends w this girl at my school bc we had the same flight to a marathon. running brings ppl together lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1w

This is totally valid. That’s why I don’t allow a relationship to even get to that point. I’ll break up with someone who doesn’t respect boundaries. Like would my married mother go over to a random guy friend’s house in the middle of the night just 1 on 1? NO! So why would I try to make that type a woman a wife?? Crazy talk.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

Yeah, I totally understand. Some people don’t want partners, they just want a harem

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I can totally relate to this comment

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