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As a man, living with a woman sucks. They always make situations 10X more stressful than they need to be. Like chill tf out
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Anonymous 1w

hey this is a generalization that didn’t need to be made🤗 i understand you’re clearly frustrated but maybe talk to her!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

nah that never goes anywhere. I bring up a valid issue and she makes it a bigger issue. there’s no winning

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

It’s a generalization that has some basis to it you do realize right?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

so that means living with any woman would suck, right? bc that's what you're implying

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

i’d say most

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

sexist much?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

then move out and quit whining if you hate it so much. go live with a man instead

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

no it kinda is a societal problem, like we talk about how men are forced to suppress their emotions but this is what it looks like

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

here is a man, expressing his emotions, and you dismiss it!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

he's allowed to have emotions, no one said he wasn't lol. but claiming "most" women are difficult to live with is just untrue and making a claim like that based on his own experiences is not fair to women in general

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

there isn’t really a question of fairness to women here, he’s making a statement that doesn’t affect them and is just venting his frustration. I think clearly the woman he lives with is also doing this type of thing where she invalidates his concerns and overrides them with “i didn’t like the way you said that”

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

there’s a lot more nuance in a claim like this than the convenient “man bad woman good” of tiktok feminists

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

so that means he's automatically allowed to say that most other women will be this exact same way? bc that pretty much sums up what he suggested lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

it literally does not sum up what he says that’s the problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

he literally replied to my comment confirming that in his head it would suck to live with most women lol but alr

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

like look at the way you’re speaking to him

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

you LITERALLY told him “quit whining” because you clearly don’t believe that men are allowed to express their emotions

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

what's wrong w telling him to go do smth ab it if he's that miserable? if there's an issue, fix it. complaining about it online really does not solve his problem lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

he should just leave her if it's that bad, i get that living together makes it hard but you can always try to change the situation

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

your suggestion is clearly in bad faith i’m not even going to entertain the idea that this is a legit think you think he should do

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

not what you said though is it? you said “quit whining” (dismissing men’s emotions) “and live with a man” (homophobia)

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

so bc i said one thing it means i believe men shouldn't be allowed to express their emotions? alrighty then 😭 he's entitled to how he feels, but saying it would suck to live w MOST women in general simply bc of a poor experience he's having w one rn is just not fair to say imo lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

if he doesn't want to live with a woman, then his options are to either live by himself or with someone of the opposite gender. idk if you quite understand what homophobia is lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

your knee jerk reaction was literally to dismiss him, so yes it does mean that. Maybe you don’t hold that belief consciously, but if a woman were to say something like this you would approach her with empathy and kindness. You should definitely do some soul searching and investigate your biases

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

whatever you say lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

and internalized misogyny

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

i wouldn't do that at all but whatever you'd like to think haha. i just can't stand when ppl regardless of gender complain rather than do anything about their issues then act like oh bc this happened to me it means most men/women must be the same. it's clear he's tried, but if she's not listening to him, he should leave. it's as simple as that. if you don't want to put up with something anymore, then don't let yourself put up with it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

if you think i have internalized misogyny bc of a comment on yikyak you don't know a thing lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

easy to say all of this now that i point out your flaws

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

anyone who has it will tell you this

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

i'm flawed bc i used my free speech online? crazy work lol. and everything i've said i stand by. you don't like how your life is going? change it. not sure what's so hard to understand about that

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

didn't know you were an expert on the human mind

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Don’t try to use logic with women. It’s like talking to a wall. Just say they are right. It’s all they want to hear anyways

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

don’t talk to men period, it’s like talking to a wall. it’ll just hurt their fragile little egos, they only care about validation from other men 🤗

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