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Confessions 17w
Gang I’m highkey getting abused by my gf but I can’t leave bc it’s the closest thing to love I’ve ever received help
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Anonymous 17w

I was in the situation and it got to the point where i straight up got drunk asf and broke up with him randomly one night. It might be hard but I recommend finding a way out because I PROMISE you that you will feel better and realize you are better off without her

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17w

This situation*

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17w

It’s really complicated because she’s also going through a lot. She was also SEVERELY abused as a child and doesn’t mean to hurt me. But it hurts so freaking much and idk. I don’t want to just leave her but I’m at a point where it feels like I can’t take much more

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

My ex was going through a lot too, but sometimes you have to put yourself first if it’s affecting you. I have severe BPD, anxiety and PTSD and it is never an excuse to treat someone poorly. She shouldn’t be in a relationship if she doesn’t have healthy coping mechanisms and clearly needs to be in therapy for a long time, possibly for the rest of her life if it’s affecting the people around her.

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