my ex gf could never find my clit even when i moved her onto it. n when i asked her to do a lil more research on eating literally as politely as i possibly could she made me out to be an evil person because (not good ik) i had faked most of my O’s (i did finish a few times but bc of the strap on the off chance she’d use it on me) and used that as a reason to never learn. also said it was too hard. have that talk w him but if you alr have n he hasn’t fixed it then leave.