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My bf said liberals r pussies n I asked him if he thinks they’re pussies for caring that ppl r being deported. He’s Hispanic and is directly impacted by this issue and got really pissed at me for saying that. Ik I’m a piece of shit idk how to fix this
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Anonymous 12w

when you kiss him do you taste trumps dick? you must bc he sucking the FUCK out of his dick fr

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Anonymous 12w

not a piece of shit more likely he is

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Anonymous 12w

He lacks empathy and succeeded in making you feel bad for calling him out on it (you could’ve been a lot meaner). He sounds like a dick and if my bf ever said shit like that he’d be an ex. Your opinion is valid and he should’t bring topics like that up if he can’t handle replying without emotionally abusing you.

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Anonymous 12w

Only downvoting because ewww hes emotionally abusing you fo sure with a response like this. That aint a man thats a lil boy. DO NOT feel bad for having feelings thats completely reasonable.

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Anonymous 12w

How tf does that make you a piece of shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

I can’t put all the context into the post bc of the word limit, but he doesn’t support trump. He was saying that one of the things he does agree with conservatives is the fact that he thinks liberals r pussies. I took it as him saying that about how liberals are sensitive about bigger issues (LGBTQ, other minority groups rights, etc.) n I tried to put it into perspective that liberals rnt pussies by asking that. He only meant that liberals can’t take jokes.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Nah i think that’s exactly what he meant he meant being sensitive about social issues

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

His family is being directly impacted by the deportations n they live in fear everyday. He basically took it as me trying to do a “gotcha” which wasn’t my intent at all but regardless it was fucked up for me to bring up smthing like that serious when he was making a passing comment that I think wasn’t meant to be taken so seriously. I just got upset bc sometimes he isn’t v sensitive abt LGBT issues (my community) or other minority groups, so I took it more seriously n used smthing I shouldn’t’ve

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

See I think when he said that he was partly talking about lgbt issues so he’s being kinda hypocritical about that. Something that affect him sm shouldn’t be a gotcha but I don’t think that’s how you meant it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

Yeah I definitely didn’t mean it as a gotcha bc it’s not like I was trying to “win” in that conversation or smthing. I was just offended by him saying that and was trying to express that liberals are sensitive about important things in a way that he’d actually understand. But idk i didn’t mean to minimize his experiences at all by saying that bc I obviously know it’s absolutely horrible what he’s dealing with rn

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

You had a valid point though snd it is horrible

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

Ur the second person to mention him emotionally abusing me. How is this situation indicative of emotional abuse? Like just genuinely curious cuz I thought he was just upset at me for minimizing his experiences

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