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Confessions 7w
Anyone else got someone that loves making any bad situation worse by bitching the whole time or shutting down your ideas on how to solve the issue like actually shut the fuck up
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Anonymous 7w

Some people just need to vent to cope. Not everyone feels supported the same way. Try de-escalation first instead of immediately jumping to a solution. It’s common in people that have a lack of emotional regulation. Bring them out of panic, then work on solutions. Unless you don’t care about them. Then yeah stfu fr

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

What’s even worse is when they start throwing accusations or doing mental gymnastics on “who to blame” (never themselves ever) and it’s just like bruh it doesn’t matter who’s taking the blame for the milk being spilled we just need to clean it up and stfu

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

All I can say is, you don’t have to surround yourself with people that make you unhappy. If you aren’t willing to be patient with them, then don’t. Just let them go. Alternatively, you can talk to them about how it makes you feel when they take out their emotional spiral on you. Otherwise, it’s the same situation. Bitch the whole time and shut down solutions. Right?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

They’re long gone

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