Absolutely, if you’re providing, no questions asked! I do ask that you put things where they are supposed to be, like don’t leave clothes on the floor, put them in the laundry basket, I’ll wash them but don’t just be messy because you think your wife’s going to do it. I can clean but I don’t want it to feel like I live with someone who just doesn’t care for their living space. Don’t really like messy people, ykwim?
I see this question a lot. Some men simply desire to be a provider and some men just can’t do it financially. It really doesn’t matter what I bring to the table as long as it’s not any added stress or problems. But if I am to answer, I am the table. I’m not just contributing, I am the structure that supports everything else excluding money. I want someone who desires to be the provider not someone I’d have to convince because then I feel like they’d never be truly happy with the decision.