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Confessions 6w
I met this woman while traveling alone. She was there with her sister, and her first night out she was really drunk and getting cozy with some guy. Her sister told me “we have to stop this, she has a boyfriend”, so we stepped in. I follow her on ig, now>
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Anonymous 6w

she’s married to said boyfriend, who has two daughters from a previous relationship! Idk I just think that’s crazy, but they look so happy together, I’m glad we prevented her from doing something that she would definitely regret

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Anonymous 6w

Doubt this is the first time. If she acts like that while drunk I’m pretty sure she has cheated, alcohol just the excuse

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Maybe, but idk her well enough to say that. I think people underestimate how circumstantial cheating can be. Not to say that it’s an excuse, I’ve been cheated on myself and it was one of the worst times in my life, but I’m giving her the benefit of the doubt. It’s not my life, she seems to be very happily married and I’m happy for the both of them. Her and her sister and brother were all very nice people and we had great memories together

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Alcohol is a more powerful drug than you think. It can make you do some fucked up shit you’ve never even considered while sober.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Yes alcohol literally suppresses inhibition

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

And she was soooooo drunk. I wouldn’t be surprised if she doesn’t remember it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

I’ve been fucked up multiple times and I never thought about cheating

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Me neither, but I think it’s best not to assume the worst

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

There’s a difference between really drunk and blacked out. And people react differently to alcohol. Some people are still themselves just amped up while for other people it can change their whole personality. And some people are more in control while they drink than others. If this was a one time thing that she wasn’t even aware of then I think it’s fine. If it’s a pattern then she should stop drinking.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

To be honest I don’t think this is worth debating. We’re not in her head

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I do, if I found out my gf tried cheating on me while drunk I would still break up with her. How can I trust someone who can’t even be trusted while drunk? I’m not a babysitter Would u forgive your bf if he was in the same situation

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Like either one of you could be right idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Well I’m a straight guy, so I’d be a little confused if I had a boyfriend, and second, ofc not, but people make mistakes and we prevented a mistake. That’s all

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Someone else preventing the mistake is not the same, she was going to cheat and she was forced not to

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

i feel sorry for you because it seems your perspective is pretty black and white

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

I feel sorry you got no self respect, it’s almost pathetic

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