Anonymous #3 23h

You will get there! But take him out of them pinned girl. You only doing yourself more hurt

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Anonymous #2 23h

i don’t rlly look at it or think abt it. but he was pinned first for two years so it would just feel weird and i’d think abt it more if i unpinned him. it goes him, mom, dad. so if the order/placement changed id think abt it every time i opened the app

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Anonymous #3 23h

Ahhh I see that, me I had to like let my feelings go fully all the way. So I unpinned her. Stop sharing location and stuff. I feel like I stay attached and I lowkey fake it till I make it. We all got our ways

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Anonymous #2 23h

no that’s real. he’s blocked on everything except for imsg cuz he wanted stuff back. even if i block him on there i don’t think id unpin him. also my way of coping i guess is to just not think abt it, i kinda just ignore it. so thats what im doing. it definitely isnt helping cuz i think abt him every day but i cant help myself, i cant push myself to cope in a different way yet

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Anonymous #3 23h

You so real for letting me in on that. I want it back but know I shouldn’t want it back. My way of coping is knowing I cut ties so I can’t go back to something that destroys me. But here I am destroying myself bc of how much I think of her each day. I think of her all day and what she could possibly be doing. Idk how to cope differently

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Anonymous #2 23h

EXACTLY. i just wanna know what he’s doing. how he’s doing. how his family is. if he thinks abt me too… i still talk abt him to my family like we didn’t break up. “we used to do that tg too!” it’s too painful to talk abt the fact that we aren’t tg, so i just pretend we still are. ugh i need a therapy session im realizing a lot of sht rn 💀💀💀

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Anonymous #3 23h

😭😭😭 me and you both need a good therapy session I think. Cuz yea I just wanna know what’s she doing how’s she doing and if she’s struggling like me or if she’s living her best life without me. Which I think she is living the best life without me so that hurts. My family knows we broke up, but didn’t know I talked to her till like a week ago. Then cut contact cuz I just couldn’t be somewhere that wasn’t where I should be fr. But now I wanna go back

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