Anonymous #1 3w

like they will do good for like 2-3weeks and then i will find out they were out or they did this or they did that at some jon and its like why we keep talking and they my only close friends rn

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Anonymous OP 3w

i feel like if its happening like once every 2-3 weeks maybe there other reasons are legitimate? idk the situation but if they really are your friends theyre not trying to hurt you

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Anonymous #3 3w

thats what im thinking as well and im not saying they cant be outside but they did plans that we all spoke about doing together and didnt even tell me they got caught talking about it. ive spoken about how much i hate being the backup friend and i feel like that constantly.

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Anonymous OP 3w

i hear that and the only reason im saying what i said is because i was where you are. i think making a friend or 2 outside the group could be very helpful because then u dont end up placing such high expectations on this one group to meet ur emotional needs. that was my problem i think but i also overthink things alot which was my other problem

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Anonymous #3 2w

i didn’t even think of it like that, thank you.

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