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What do you do when you look around at your life and realize that you fucked up every single good thing you used to have because you were an asshole with no self awareness. Like how are you supposed to rebuild your whole life 20+ years into it?
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Anonymous 1d

I’d make some short term & long term goals and do my best to make different decisions each day to be better

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Anonymous 1d

You’re rebuilding, not replacement. You gotta find peace and acceptance or forgiveness within yourself to move on. Gotta give yourself compassion in order to grow

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Anonymous 1d

Self accountability and the drive to make the past and future better will heal your heart

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Part of me wonders if this is just what I deserve. Maybe the reason it’s so hard and I feel like I’ve gotten nowhere after so long is because I’m not supposed to succeed.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Everyone deserves to move on from bad times. Like even if you’re an abuser, you can still turn yourself around. You just gotta put in the work, you’ll start to believe you deserve to succeed. Step 1) set up therapy appointment

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