I have a good relationship and I have cried in front of my gf several times over the years, but it’s only because I know I feel safe with her and can trust her not to make me regret it. I, like most men, grew up conditioned to hide my emotions and taught that they’re a sign of weakness. But I’ve learned since then how damaging bottling it all up can be, and have learned healthier ways to process them. Which is why I can cry without fear of judgement, but most aren’t as fortunate as I have been.