Anonymous #1 16w

i crave him when I’m sober

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Anonymous OP 16w

then stop drinking your choosing to drink knowing your gonna cheat but ether way you have alr cheated end it cause he will find out and it will hurt a lot more later on

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Anonymous #1 16w

i’m not breaking up with him. he needs me and i need him. i’m trying to change my ways and sweep this under the rug so we can move on.

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Anonymous OP 16w

sweeping cheating under rug is fucked tell him what you did and let him decide if he can look past it and you obviously didn’t need him when you fucked someone else

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Anonymous #1 16w

i feel like you’re being a bit unreasonable. you don’t know all the facts. we’ve both gone through rough patches and had relationships issues in the past. we’ve both coped in unhealthy ways. i’m acknowledging my problems and working towards fixing them.

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Anonymous OP 16w

Cheating is more than just an "unhealthy way of coping"

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Anonymous OP 16w

has he cheated? if not there is no comparison also it sounds like this wasn’t like a one time mistake and it is now his choice if he wants to stay with a cheater 🤷‍♀️ don’t make him have a relationship that has cheating “swept under the rug” if you truly love and care for him you would let him make that choice and no i am not being unreasonable cheating is cheating which you did more then once idc if you were drunk you still got drunk again knowing you would do it again

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Anonymous #2 16w

thank you!

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