Anonymous #1 1d

He came up to me and asked me to pour him a drink, so I did, but then he took the glass and he spilled the whiskey all over me down my shirt. So then I was cold, wet, embarrassed, and hurt, and he told me to make myself useful and pour him another one. So I did and then he told me to go the fuck away.

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Anonymous OP 1d

what an asshole. What what his fuck ass reasoning? Do you need me to pull up and help you jump him?

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Anonymous #1 1d

His reasoning was just straight up that he doesn’t like me and he thought it’d be funny. But during our talk he did say that he was sorry

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Anonymous OP 1d

Yeah lowkey as a dude he’s lying to you he ain’t sorry at fucking all

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Anonymous #2 1d

It felt real

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Anonymous OP 1d

Feelings are easily manipulated and faked

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Anonymous OP 1d

u can have a crush and still ghost someone that is hurting you. He’s not a quality human being wtf

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Anonymous OP 1d

Rose tinted glasses you have a crush on him

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Anonymous #1 1d

I totally get what you’re saying, but in my specific case I can’t ghost him

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Anonymous #2 1d

Maybe you make a point about the rose tinted glasses but he was a little bit kinder than usual when I saw him this morning

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Anonymous OP 1d

Literally that’s bc he knows you’re gonna still like him he’s manipulating you take it from someone who has manipulated girls

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Anonymous #1 1d

No like I can’t ghost him because we’re in such close proximity to each other

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Anonymous OP 1d

Smth is wrong with him and he will only get worse

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Anonymous #2 1d

I don’t think he knows I like him. I think he thinks we feel similarly towards each other

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Anonymous OP 1d

You live together?

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Anonymous #1 1d

Like 70% of the time yeah. He comes and goes sometimes for a couple weeks at a time

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Anonymous OP 1d

This sounds like a male narcissist. Are you guys exclusive or are you the only one being loyal?

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Anonymous #1 1d

We’re not a couple. It’s just an unrequited crush. We’ve never been romantic or sexual before. He doesn’t really do girlfriends though, I always see him with a different girl

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Anonymous #1 1d

Genuinely what I’m thinking as someone who’s a diagnosed narcissist and has anti social personality disorder

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Anonymous OP 1d

I need you to confide in your mother or a sister or auntie. Today in person. You need to watch how him hurting you hurts them. They love you

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Anonymous #1 1d

Mom’s dead, no sisters, last I heard my only living aunt was in a German speaking cult in Oregon. Tbh I live a somewhat socially isolated life so that’s a big part of why I use this app

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Anonymous OP 1d

What about your dad?

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Anonymous OP 1d

Is there a power Imbalance in the relationship based on certain differences between you two?

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Anonymous #1 1d

He was never very kind to me. I was mostly raised by my grandma, who’s dead, and I have two brothers

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Anonymous #1 1d

Between me and my crush? Yeah there’s 110% a huge power imbalance tbh

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Anonymous OP 1d

He’s taking full advantage. I need you to confide in an old close friend over ft today. Can you promise me girl to girl?

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Anonymous #1 1d

I wouldn’t say he’s taking advantage because he’s not trying to get anything out of me. He just hates me. I don’t have anyone like that I can FaceTime btw, so I’m sorry but I can’t promise

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Anonymous OP 1d

what if he starts beating you or tries to kill you ? I need you to find ways to protect yourself and to plan an escape in emergencies. Have a go bag packed

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Anonymous #1 1d

He won’t start beating me and he won’t try to kill me. It’s complicated but I can pretty much guarantee he wouldn’t do that

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Anonymous OP 1d

Okay can we dm? Can I give you my number for emergencies? I’m a girl also and I’m j concerned as someone who grew up in an abusive household bc I’ve seen similar behaviors before

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Anonymous #1 1d

Yeah we can dm

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Anonymous OP 1d

Girl he definitely know that you like him and that why he feel so comfortable to do that. Men know who to play with and who not to play with.

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Anonymous #3 1d

I’m not saying that most men aren’t like that but tbh I’d be VERY surprised if he knew I was into him because like our circumstances and how we know each other would directly contradict it

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Anonymous OP 1d

At the end of the day girl, don’t date him. That just crazy, he doesn’t like you at all.

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