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Where are these women who claim they “love nerds/smart guys”? Or the ones who say they wanna have an actual relationship? I keep running into women that aren’t quite where I’m at yet and it’s frustrating. If I had a girlfriend, I’d take such good care.💔
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Anonymous 3w

My guess, just cause it’s a common pattern, is you might be looking for potential partners in places that are not meant for those women? Trying going to nerdy events in your area or joining game groups online and start with making friends. If your being respectful, and don’t act foolish when they some of them turn your down - they’ll turn up. You gotta be social and make sure you go into it with the right attitude and it’ll happen on it’s own when the time is right.

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Anonymous 3w

Women are NOT into nerds and if they are you will never meet them because they are inside and never go out. Go to the gym and join a sports league even if you hate it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

That is in fact a lie - sincerely a woman about to marry a nerd surrounded by women who are married to nerds. 🙄

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Why sports league

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Its not a lie. Giving men bad advice is not good. Women love strong men who are confident. Nerds are neither of these things. Nerd =/= having hobbies

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Ooo. I don’t really go to nerd events enough, this is a great idea

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I’m strong, very. I have lost my confidence at of late. (Last year or so)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I’m a nerd, and I’m also a bodybuilder so I think you might be wrong?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Great way to meet people

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

No such thing as a nerd bodybuilder a nerd is not somebody with hobbies

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I run marathons, I play chess, I rock climb, I watch anime, I play piano, and I play video games…the list goes on

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Nerd does kind of imply derogatory thoughts, such as being sedentary, or not social, and therefore not experiencing the rest of the world. Let’s go with SMART. I assume that this bodybuilder friend of mine is smart. With that being said, now what? He is a smart bodybuilder. He should be pulling women. And so should I

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Lololololololol, not you telling a woman that her experience is false. Confidence yes, but working put is not a hobby that appeals to alot of women. Unless your going for a health nut. Seriously stop mansplaining what women want, your advice is what keep men single and sad.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Wtf are you on??? Nerds have lots of hobbies??? Reading, writing, video games, dungeons and dragons, prop building, films, cosplay ect ect

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Do not listen to 1 🤦‍♀️ unless you want to meat someone whose hobby is their health the gym is a terrible place to meet people - especially because most women at the gym do not want to be bothered.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Are you trying to date other body builders??? This is what I mean about trying to meet women in the wrong spaces. If your going to the gym looking for a nerdy girl, its not going to happen. You have to go i to needy spaces and don’t worry about pulling, just worry about making friends and getting to know people. That literally how every nerdy person I know got married.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

No i mean that nerd does not mean a person with hobbies. People tend to equate being a nerd with having hobbies

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Yes because typically what makes someone nerdy is their hobbies and interests? If they dont do needy stuff they arent a nerd

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I am not implying that I am keeping myself physically fit in places where I hope to find a woman. (I’m not going to the gym to pick up girls) It is actually a requirement for my employment. However, I am putting it out there as a fact that I am a fit and smart man. And I am not pulling as I believe I can.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Sorry I don’t think you are, but I think thats what #1 is trying to tell you to do its terrible advice. Hope it works out at the nerd events! Worse case you’ll expand your friend circles and that could lead to some great relationships down the road

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

You do know athletes can be nerds right

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Thank you very much 🙂

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