
my partner used to have moments like this but i stuck w them bc of how sincere they are with me and the interesting & open conversations we have together. they’re really smart, but as a consequence they get so interested in reading and writing that they forget to take care of themselves. i don’t say this to imply you’re not smart or interesting, just that said bf above most assuredly has more going on than his hygienic habits (though those should get better ofc)