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My roommate is trying to ask her co-worker out but she is 21 and he is 19…he is a whole ass teenager 😭 😭 I told her this and she was like ‘what are you gonna put me on a list😝🤪’ 🫩
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Anonymous 13h

They are both adults it’s fine

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Anonymous 12h

Yah there's a super tight age thing in that area I do believe after 21, you need to stick with 21-25 And after 25, you gotta stay 25+ Even tho, honestly, I dated a 25yr old when I was 22. The age/maturity gap was somehow WAY more noticeable/impactful than when I dated a 38 yr old when I was 25 (last year) 🤷‍♀️ Under 25, age pairings can be super tricky

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

Feels so weirddd besides he isnt emotionally mature yet!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

Whatever again they are adults and he isn’t your bf so I would simply mind your own business.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

Im allowed to say whatever is on my mind here actually! Hope this helps!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

I know that but you seem to be making a big deal over nothing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12h

So then you think an 18 yr old and 30 yr old is a totally fine relationship with nothing else behind it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

That's a good point this experience might terrify him or scar him forever. There is a reason she is not dating other 21 year old men. She is a PREDATOR. HE IS A CHILD. Lord in heaven please save this poor innocent 19 year old boy from this old haggerdy creepy 21 year old woman

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

Personally that age gap is too much but I’m sure there are people that find that age gap acceptable. But we are talking about a person that’s 30 and 18 we are talking about a person that’s 21 and 19 a 2 year age gap which is not a big deal.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

I am not being serious... not sure how obvious I made it...

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12h

Like EVERY single year between 16-26, you mentally change/mature sooooo dramatically It makes things complicated 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12h

This is what im talking about! The mental maturity isnt the same and they arent at the same places at life. Its difficult and just not gonna work out

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