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Why do women try and make themselves the victims every time when they’re the problem nearly every time?
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Anonymous 4w

You can’t group 50% of the planet into one category lmao. I know plenty of people of all genders who are chronically the victim. I also know plenty of people of all genders who take accountability when they are wrong. Idk you and idk the situation, but maybe you should be more critical when making friends if all of the girls you know refuse to take accountability. Or maybe self reflect because you are currently making yourself out to be a victim.

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Anonymous 4w

Me when I’m definitely not a misogynist

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

#1 tried to make a point and you just invalidated theirs with this comment

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Don’t claim to be a victim, I’m pointing out behavior I’ve seen

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Please try to explain to me your opinion without it being clearly based in misogyny lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Behavior in situations involving you or objective situations that you have no involvement in? Because if they’re only involving you then I still recommend self reflection. It’s true that some women will play the victim no matter what. But it’s also true that some men will play the victim no matter what. # 2 is correct in pointing out that by claiming that all women doing something (good or bad) is a misogynistic worldview. It can be hard to not put a whole group of people into one category (1/2)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

It can be hard to not put a whole group of people into one category when that’s the only experience you’ve had with that group. But it’s important to remember that those people don’t represent the whole group they belong to. Especially if they belong to a group as big as 50% of the planet. That would be called stereotyping. Self reflection and learning about other people in that group can be a good way to break out of that mindset and broaden your world view. (2/2)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

It’s not tho, you not knowing the difference proves me right

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

They’re wrong for saying my claim was misogynistic cause it isn’t. Some claims might be but not mine. Until they accept it’s not I can’t have a debate cause they’ll argue a point that isn’t there or right

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Just for the sake of understanding your perspective, can I ask why you don’t believe your claim is misogynistic?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Because I don’t hate women. Misogynistic views mean you hate women. I don’t hate women. I like them more than men. To be misogynistic is to hate women

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I can’t tell your personality, beliefs, or genuine intention based off of a single post (downside of the anonymous void that is the internet). Objectively speaking, this post does come across as misogynistic because you are pointing out a negative behavior that you seem to believe that all women partake in. (Assuming that this is not rage bait) you probably aren’t going to get many genuine answers to your original question because of the way it is worded.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

The reason some people might chronically play the victim (assuming they aren’t actually the victim in this situation) can be due to many different factors. It could be the way they were raised, it could be a behavior they learned in adulthood that worked to get them what they want, or they might genuinely believe they are always the victim. If these kind of women are the only women you have interacted with, then I am sorry about that. I urge you to not believe that all women are like that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I also urge you to pay attention and see if there are men in your life that are like that too. Maybe try befriending people you normally wouldn’t. I hope you get to develop friendships with women and men who don’t refuse to take accountability.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

It can come off as that but that doesn’t mean I am which you guys are assuming, which makes any argument I make pointless because you hold that belief. I can’t have this debate til you accept I’m not misogynistic

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I cut all women and men out who act like this

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