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Confessions 5w
Telling me “guys like that though” or “people find that attractive” when im complaining abt my insecurities does not help me. Idgaf what these hypothetical people like.
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Anonymous 5w

Fact is whatever you are insecure about....most people don't give a shit. No one thinks about us nearly as much as we think. No reason to get mad at folks just trying to essentially say...hey I hear you but it's not as bad as you think. Dudes just have a shitty way with phrasing it, and we default to trying to fix problems not just listening to them.

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Anonymous 5w

People are always going to assume our insecurities are rooted in trying to attract sex partners. For some they just can’t fathom that we might want to change for ourselves.

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Anonymous 5w

So why do you care what these hypothetical people DONT like?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

wtf is the point of openly complaining about a problem in public and then getting mad and lashing out at anybody who offers a solution? At that point just keep the shit to yourself.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Not rlly a solution telling me other ppl like it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I also don’t. It’s more so ***I*** don’t like it on myself and nothing helps unfortunately, esp not comments like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Im also not publicly complaining abt this stuff

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

This is a public forum

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Would you rather that nobody responds to you at all? If so; just write this in a personal diary. Imagine if I walked into a bar and started drinking and got pissed off whenever anybody said hi to me. I’d just drink at home instead. But whatever idc block me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

If this post counts then I guess I have once but this was more so me venting my frustrations about telling ppl I trust irl. I dont talk abt stuff like this on here bc it just invites weirdos into dms

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Reread my other response pls

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