We should definitely encourage listening to women to avoid situations like this, but shaming people like this only makes them less likely to seek help and more likely to stay in unsafe situations. Nobody deserves abuse, no matter how “avoidable” people see it as, or how many “red flags” people think they missed.

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we always warn them and every time the girl thinks it’s because we are trying to win the guy back. Okay learn the awful way

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