I’ve literally never been happier than I am today. I made the decision to file for divorce first thing on Monday, and the guy I’ve been seeing has offered to let me stay with him
I’ve been cheating on my husband yes, but only because he was being abusive towards me.
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AnonymousOP3d
Im sorry to hear that i hope everything works out well for you
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AnonymousOP3d
You say that like it’s an excuse. 2 wrongs don’t make a right
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Anonymous#33d
you’re equating being abusive to doing things you normally wouldn’t to escape an abusive relationship. not everything is black and white as “2 wrongs don’t make a right” you sound stupid
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Anonymous#23d
Thank you 🫶
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Anonymous#33d
you should be ashamed of yourself for blaming someone who is getting out of an abusive situation. disgusting.
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Anonymous#33d
I’m not trying to excuse it, just giving my reasons. Regardless it’s over now since I’m filing for divorce
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AnonymousOP3d
i’m happy you’re out OP, wishing you the best
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Anonymous#43d
I appreciate it! Thank you!
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AnonymousOP3d
Ur just as bad ngl
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Anonymous#53d
How on earth am I just as bad?
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AnonymousOP2d
OP dont worry about anyone on this post saying shit youre doing the right thing
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Anonymous#42d
If he’s abusive then u do ur best to get out of the relationship. Cheating on ur partner doesn’t help the situation at all. Also, I never said the things equal, cuz they aren’t. Him doing something worse than u doesn’t make cheating an okay thing to do
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Anonymous#42d
Point out where I blamed them for something they didn’t do. If they cheated, they cheated. It really is that simple. Ur acting like I’m blaming them for getting beat or something
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Anonymous#32d
You said as if getting out is easy LMFAOOO. It’s not
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Anonymous#62d
Never said that. But not cheating, is incredibly easy.
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Anonymous#32d
Cheating is a gray area duh. This one is justisfied
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Anonymous#32d
Cheating does help them get out of the relationship, as their new partner can be a safety net for them, give them a place to stay, etc. A partner being abusive breaks the contract of a relationship and youre no longer obligated to be loyal to someone abusive