
The two problems with this are that 1. there are so many people who genuinely do meet each other off these apps so it’s difficult to completely discredit them, and 2. the older you get and the more cautious you are about safety, the less opportunities you find to meet someone and make a genuine connection. All of that aside, there’s a lot of people who don’t understand the “league” of attractiveness they’re in and will immediately discount potential suitors based on physical characteristics .