Anonymous #1 21h

Apparently very shallow

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Anonymous OP 21h

right… i think you’ve just been hurt. you don’t think that good sex is integral to a healthy relationship?

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Anonymous #1 21h

I think if you have a health relationship then the sex will be good. But hookup culture nowadays has ruined what an actual healthy relationship is. You’re basically telling any guy who reads this that they could literally be perfect and everything that you want and they could give you the world. But if their dick isn’t up to your standards, they’re worthless. You should be ashamed of yourself and your parents should be ashamed of who they raised

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Anonymous OP 21h

wow you’ve really been hurt. i’m sorry. listen, i’ll take personality over anything any day. also, i’m not the original poster. dick size doesn’t matter that much to me. now, if the man has a micropenis, then that’s something we’d have to discuss. as long as you can find a way to make the sex good, then it’s fine.

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Anonymous OP 21h

yikes buddy. it’s not absolutely crazy to say a bad sex life can kill a relationship. this has been the reality since literally decades before modern day

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Anonymous OP 21h

and no she didn’t say that actually

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Anonymous #3 20h

Because it’s hypocritical to say we don’t care about looks and then care about something the guy literally has no control over besides having an operation

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Anonymous #6 20h

everyone cares about looks to an extent. if you say you don’t, you’re lying.

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Anonymous #1 20h

Yeah that kind of contradicts what you just said that it does matter. Sex can be enjoyable even without a PIV. So you’re saying one thing but saying another

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Anonymous #3 20h

idk why you’re arguing both are right when both are wrong

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Anonymous #3 20h

actually, it’s fine to want a good sex life, but it’s invasive to ask or find out about dick size or other personal information before you even get to know the person

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Anonymous #7 20h

well, of course. i’m sure there are people who do that, but i’d hope that the majority of people would have a few good conversations in which they’ve learned things about the other person before asking about that kind of thing. asking out of the blue is boring, disrespectful behavior.

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Anonymous #6 20h

it doesn’t, they said while in general dick size is important, for her personally it’s not seriously that crucial to break up with their dream ideal guy if he had a small one due to there being other sexual things that can make up for it like toys

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Anonymous #1 20h

I’m more objecting to the intent of this post & some comments with wanting to know stuff like that beforehand, but otherwise yeah agreed

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Anonymous #4 20h

lol thank you.

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Anonymous #1 20h

reading comprehension in the gutter these days

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Anonymous #4 20h

tell me about it. can’t have a decent conversation to save my life anymore because none of these men can or care to read :’)

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Anonymous #3 20h

If all of your friends jumped off a bridge, would you? It’s something shallow people do, forget this man versus woman shit.

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Anonymous #8 19h

Isn’t that always what it boils down to tho? It’s okay for men to be sluts, but women are “nasty” if they have slept with too many guys. Or men can drink till they pass out and it’s funny, but if a woman does it she’s trashy. The list could go on and on and on. I’m not saying it’s not shallow. Cuz it is. BUT it also depends on circumstances. If it’s being asked about RIGHT away that’s weird imo. But then again men have no problems sending unwanted dick pics so why is it wrong for her to want 1?

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Anonymous #9 17h

yeah ts is not feminism 😭 you don’t fight objectification with objectification

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Anonymous #9 14h

are you also in all the social media threads where men are ripping women’s looks to shreds? hope you get picked!

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Anonymous #12 14h

brother what

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Anonymous #9 14h

can you read? so sick of pick me idiots

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Anonymous #9 14h

women that are so concerned about men’s fee fees are hilarious to me - they do not gaf about you at all and would not hesitate to denigrate you sexually

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Anonymous #12 14h

you’re telling shitty men that even women think this invasive objectification is acceptable, and you’re showing not-shitty men that you don’t care about addressing that culture’s patriarchal roots. It’s disgusting to call someone a “pick me” for being uncomfortable with overt dehumanization.

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Anonymous #7 14h

i’m saying women should treat men exactly how they treat us. generations of women have begged men to stop sexualizing us, and it has never worked. how tf does it benefit women to say that men will go on acting disgusting toward us as they always have, but we have to treat them with respect?

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Anonymous #12 13h

actually, invasive objectification is wrong and disgusting under all circumstances and it’s also wrong and disgusting to support a toxic culture while pretending to be against it 👍 we’ve lived in patriarchy for generations, that doesn’t mean we can’t still fight it.

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Anonymous #12 13h

doomer mentality won’t help anyone, and calling someone a pick-me for not having that same mindset isnt it. I beg you to look at how much change has occurred in the past few centuries, and how women deserve and can achieve a better reality. stooping down to their level accomplishes nothing.

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Anonymous #7 13h

and what good has “fighting” done for us in changing how men speak about us? lol

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Anonymous #12 13h

girl. the entire history of the feminist movement was accomplished through “fighting”. women used to be treated like property & it was normalized for them to be beat. that change in culture was the result of fighting for our rights. addressing patriarchy & its ilk is how we change our shitty reality. believing things can change has always been an impetus for change.

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Anonymous #7 13h

I just got here- are we arguing how change happens because it’s obviously always been through extreme change, talking about it, usually fighting, and standing your ground. That’s anything involving oppression.

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Anonymous #5 13h

yes, exactly. oppression results from the systems we live in, and those systems are learned. women aren’t inherently meant to be objectified, even if that’s our current reality.

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Anonymous #7 13h

i’m not talking about legal rights. i’m talking about how men treat as as sexual objects. that has never changed and never will.

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Anonymous #12 13h

it has changed, significantly. legal systems have changed, and so have cultural ones.

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Anonymous #12 13h

girl stop downvoting every other person, it’s cringe as hell and makes me think you don’t care to have this discussion. bye.

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Anonymous #7 13h

if social media is any indication, no it hasn’t. i literally can’t open up instagram, tik tok, etc without seeing misogyny

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