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I want a bf but I don’t trust men. How do I get over this
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Anonymous 18h

You heal yourself and change your standards. So many girls say “I don’t trust men,” while they’re ignoring the guys who would literally put roses at their feet and entertaining the low life’s who barely have a car, a job, or money. They blame men for their taste. Accountability and then self healing.

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Anonymous 18h

Just take things slow whenever you’re talking to someone new. Someone trustworthy would be willing to go slow without any amount of pushback

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

shoot i ain’t entertainin anybody. i would love for a guy to get me roses

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

And if you’re going on dates it would be smart to let a friend know when/where and who you’ll be with in case anything bad happens

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

i’m rlly worried he’ll get bored if i don’t rush into things

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Someone who’s impatient about having sex isn’t someone who’s trustworthy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

we unfortunately haven’t gone on any dates yet bc he’s been out of town the entire month and is still gone 💔 praying he isn’t sick of me by the time he’s returned

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

oh no not sex. i mean just in general

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Even in general, if someone’s pressuring you to move faster than you’re comfortable with that’s probably not someone you’d want to be with anyway

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

yeah definitely not pressuring just straight up walking away but i see what ur saying

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Just means you dodged a bullet

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