
Bro search up female anatomy for a better understanding: the urethra isn't in the vaginal canal, it's two separate openings. The only thing that naturally comes out of the latter is period blood when menstruating. But I do get your perspective, it can be gross to think about it in that sense but you have to keep in mind that it's natural and if you're hygienic there then it's safe and healthy, and even pleasurable. There's not many things that can replicate the pleasure of that experience, but if it's not your thing/you have no interest then that's just as understandable and normal
In line with the conversation we were having, I let him know that I find him attractive and that I would have sex with him if he wanted. He paused, looked at me like I was a pile of shit he accidentally stepped in, and said verbatim “I’m not desperate enough to pay for it.” Mind you, he invited ME over and we were playing video games at the time.