
Yes. Figuring out exactly what ur desires are. Reflecting on what u (may) have accepted in the past. What ur parents relationship is like. Understanding feminism and the realities women face due to misogyny today. Understanding patriarchy and sexism in all its forms including benevolent. Everything.. because the alternative is hell on earth.
I’m so happy to hear that you are single tbh💖 it’s a great time to be single- every woman needs her single period to understand that life is great when you are on your own- and that you should only get with someone if they ADD to your life. Being emotionally attached to a shitty guy or dating without ever being single for long fr blinds you.