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i’ve id’d a lesbian since i was 15 and i’ve never really had an attraction to men (literally forced myself to develop “crushes” to have something in common w my friends) but lately calling myself a lesbian feels farcical
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Anonymous 2w

i think it’s because i’m severely emotionally constipated. i’ve never pursued relationships with women because i have pretty bad social phobia on occasion & i feel like my social skills are quite poor. also in general don’t develop feelings easily (my last real crush being over three years ago). so i just feel like i’m lying about being a lesbian. bc i’m too insecure & basically. scared. to try anything. does that make sense? i’m so confused to be honest

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Anonymous 2w

Test it out

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Anonymous 2w

Gr8 word

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

like i clam up & freeze & get embarrassed at the thought of being attracted to another woman because i think about Her being attracted to Me and that just doesn’t sound like something that could happen. idk i guess it all boils down to my lack of confidence but 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

i ❤️ words

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